The female caps work but like you said....the way the wires snap on the male style is nice.
I typically get them from Autozone or similar parts store fore a 1978 F150 4X4 with a 351 modified. Typically a Cap Adapter Part # F958, And then the Cap and Rotor #F2103, F954, Or F2103G is needed. You will also need new spark plug wireWhere can you find caps with male terminals?